Sometimes you want to have sex standing up, other times you want to lie back and let your partner work their magic. On other occasions, you want to try a kinky position , or one that lets your partner go really really deep. Then there are those times when you just want all the control. When those dominant feels strikes, there's just one course of action to take: get on top.
Instead of your man being on top, you are. Some women love these positions while others prefer the variety of positions from our sex positions guide with illustrations. To set up the woman on top position, your man needs to lie down on his back as if he was performing the Asian Cowgirl or the Side Saddle positions. You then need to straddle him as you would when performing the Cowgirl position. So you will be on your knees on top of your man, facing him. Next, you need to lean over him and rest your weight on your hands.
Being on top has its perks. You get to be in total control of your pleasure and he gets to see you in all your glory - win, win! But the thing is, being on top position is nothing short of an art - it's a skilful position… One worth mastering! While some of us are finally being able to put our high school gymnastic lessons to good use - there are others who are just about being able to stretch at yoga - and then reaching for the door!
If you're having trouble feeling confident when you're on top during sex, don't sweat it. Here, sex experts and educators share their top tips for mastering this position without breaking a sweat. Luckily, this one is all mental. Tap into your inner diva and make the moment all about you and your pleasure.